Wedding Flat Lays: How to Tell Your Story Through Details

Flat lays are visual storytelling at its most personal. They can be clean and minimal or richly layered. What makes a flat lay meaningful isn’t how much is in it, but what each piece represents.

What is a flat lay?

A curated arrangement of your wedding details photographed from above. It preserves textures, typography, and heirlooms you rarely see together in one frame.

What to include

Choose what feels you, not just what looks pretty.

  • Paper goods: full invitation suite, envelope liner, RSVP, menu, program, vow books, wax seals, vintage stamps

  • Jewelry: rings, engagement ring box, cufflinks, tie bar, bracelet, watch, hairpins

  • Fashion: shoes, veil, bow tie, pocket square, gloves, garter

  • Beauty: perfume, lipstick, compact, comb

  • Textiles: ribbons, silk or linen scraps, napkins that match your palette

  • Heirlooms: lockets, handkerchiefs, rosary, coins, charms

  • Personal tokens: ticket stubs, travel mementos, little notes, pressed flowers

  • Floral: a few loose blooms or greenery from your florist

Styling tips

  • Palette: echo your wedding colors with one neutral anchor (ivory, stone, gray).

  • Texture: mix smooth (vellum, satin) with tactile (linen, deckled edges).

  • Hierarchy: feature one hero item (rings or invitation) and support with smaller accents.

  • Negative space: let items breathe; not every inch needs filling.

  • Symmetry vs. movement: symmetric for formal vibes, diagonal flow for organic feel.

How to prepare before the wedding day

  • Ask your stationer for an extra full suite and spare stamps/wax seals.

  • Clean and polish rings the day before.

  • Remove tags from fashion items and tuck spare laces or straps.

  • Steam textiles and pack flat in a hard folder.

  • Gather everything in a labeled details box or pouch.

Day-of logistics

  • Place your details box with your planner or in the getting-ready room.

  • We usually style and photograph flat lays in the first 30–45 minutes of coverage, near a window for soft light.

  • Ask your florist for loose blooms; a handful elevates the set.

Our approach

While many photographers will bring props for the flat lay, we try to use only what you provide. We may add items for elevation or organization purposes, but what you see in the frame is almost only your artifacts, and elements from the space we’re in.

Do’s and don’ts

Do

  • Prioritize meaning over quantity

  • Include handwritten elements (vows, a note)

  • Make sure fragile items are safely packed

Don’t

  • Overcrowd the frame

  • Forget small fasteners or backs for jewelry

Quick packing checklist

  • Invitation suite, envelopes, stamps, wax seals

  • Rings and ring box

  • Jewelry and cufflinks

  • Shoes, veil/bow tie/pocket square

  • Perfume / cologne

  • Ribbons or textiles in your palette

  • Heirlooms or personal tokens

  • Loose blooms from florist (request in advance)

FAQs

What if we don’t have an invitation suite?
Bring vow books, a note, or meaningful paper from your story. Minimal can be powerful.

Should we buy props?
Not necessary. Even if you come with the bare minimum, we'll create something meaningful for you!

Will our items be safe?
Yes. We inventory at the start and return everything to a single location when finished.

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